Tuesday, February 18, 2014
We bought a leash for Josh when he was little. We were going on a trip to Disneyland and I knew from a few experiences that he was a wanderer. He never really thought of the consequences, if something looked interesting he went off to explore. He never seemed upset about being "lost". He'd look at me and say "oh hi mom...look what I found" as I stood there looking at him tears in my eyes and feeling absolute relief that I found him. Too bad you can't put a leash on your "adult/teen" kids. Well, I suppose you could but you might go to jail. Anyway, I can remember the exact moment I realized I had lost complete control over what my teenagers do and say. It was one of the sickest, most sinking feelings I've ever felt. I knew "my say" was over and theirs had just begun. I realize there are teens out there who do what their parents want and expect....I just haven't gotten any of those (yet....hopefully?)
So, Josh....I just can't tell you how much I enjoy his company. He's a very sweet, very intelligent young man. He's struggled this past year or so...and I think he's still struggling some, but not as much. Just trying to figure himself out and what he wants in life. He hasn't made the choices I would of made for him and guess what? I still love him...I'm still proud of him and I'm still rooting for him!
He's going to school in Kearney Nebraska. He's studying theatre performance at UNK. He's a pretty talented actor, even though I'm bias he really is quite talented :)
Aaron and I got to go out to Kearney and see him in a couple plays and that was pretty cool. He's made some really good friends this year also. I know next year he and some of his friends are hoping to move into a house and share the rent. He is auditioning for a few different plays this summer, so we shall see if he gets any roles.
He's a pretty great guy...I love him dearly
Friday, February 14, 2014
|a cheesy selfie|
|Mrs Gloop and her mom|
|A picture taken at the DMV...she was annoyed with me :/|
What can I say about Megan. She's ready to get the heck out of Dodge and pretty much never misses an opportunity to tell me so. She graduates this year and plans to move to Utah (insert jealous face here). She's going to live with my sister for a year (again, insert jealous face here) and then move down to St George and go to school at Dixie State. She's had this planned for years and I have no doubt she will accomplish this goal.
There are many things I admire about Megan. She's independent and sure of herself. When she puts her mind to something she figures out a way to make it happen. She's beautiful.
She has had a great Senior year so far. She is also a theatre junkie...my kids all love theatre. She played Mrs Gloop in Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and now she is stage manager for Beauty and the Beast...she also was the Stage Manager for North Stars One Act play. She likes being on stage but I think organizing and bossing people around is her true calling. She really likes that!
She likes to wear flip flops all the time!! She even wears them in the snow. She does own closed toe shoes and wears them sometimes but her true love is being barefoot and flip flops are the next best thing.
She saved up her money and bought a laptop (she loves playing on it). She also went in on a car with her dad...he's using it right now but as soon as he finds one he wants and can afford she will have her own car.
She goes to early morning Seminary and is the Pres of her Laurels class at Church. She promises me she will get involved in Singles Ward while in Utah and I really hope she does.
The one thing I hope for her...well, I hope many things for her, but the one thing I really really hope for her is that she will someday understand being compassionate. She is so strong willed and minded that I think that's something she doesn't think is so important...I also really hope she will someday like me more. I know many of my friends have these great and wonderful relationships with their daughters....I have really tried for that, but alas Megan thinks I've tried too hard and she pushes me away at every turn. She and I do have fun together sometimes but most of the time I think she's just annoyed with me.
I love her dearly and I'm very proud of her.
Thursday, February 13, 2014
|His braces should come off soon!! woo hoo!|
When we decided on Matthew's name, before he was born, Aaron and I both agreed that we liked the name Matthew but not the name Matt. So, from the time he was born we have always called him Matthew, except for when we called him "Chewey" (a nickname he got from Megan; she could not say Matthew so she called him Matchew and it ended up chewey). I'm actually sad that we no longer call him Chewey :(. Anyway....we all call him Matthew now, everyone in our family.....but everyone outside our family call him Matt. It sounds so very foreign when people refer to him as Matt. I think Matthew doesn't mind it at all.
He's a pretty easy going kid.
He's 15 now...and getting soooo tall! I swear last year at this time he was still shorter than me and now he's taller that Megan and Josh and I think he's just about as tall as Aaron. He is so handsome too.
He really likes doing tech for North Star Theatre. He likes being up above the ceiling doing the flies (controlling all the stuff that comes down from the ceiling during a show). He likes building things too. I really think he also loves all the friendships he has through theatre too...it's his at school family.
He LOVES being a ginger...he's pretty proud of that big ole thick head of red hair. He has about the thickest head of hair I've ever seen or felt...that boy has a TON of hair!! When it grows out it looks like a mushroom shape...so I like it when he keeps it short. :)
Out of all of my kids I can honestly say he's the most willing helper. I know I take advantage of this way more than I should. He will just about always jump up and help me when I ask him to do something...until I ask one too many times and he'll say "how come I always have to do it!" And I think to myself "because you will". He won't give me hugs in public though and that truly makes me sad. He does hug me when no one else is looking though....
He likes video games and watching TV. He's started to hang out with friends more often and he tells me he likes girls but won't give me names. I can't believe he's almost old enough to date!! AHHHHH!
He's a wonderful young man...except when he fights with Joe...come on!! Joe is 5 years younger than him and it's really not a fair fight! He is pretty respectful most of the time. He loves Scouts and camping! He passes the Sacrament at Church and holds the microphone for baby blessings...it's nice to see him up there. I've had many people in our ward recently tell me how grown up he's looking. A few people have mentioned how much he looks like Zack....well, they are brothers :)
After High School he plans to go on a Mission and then join the Military. I'm excited to see what's in store for him...I love him just so very much!
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
|snuggling with Hannah|
|helping make cookies|
Joseph is growing up...I remember when he was so little and just a fierce ball of fire. Well, he's still pretty fierce and the ball of fire part is still going on most of the time too!.
He's 10 now and is in 4th grade. He's kinda fazing out of his super hero craze, which actually saddens me some. He still likes them but just not as much as he used to. He loves to build things with legos. He LOVES to draw and is working on his 4th sketch book. he especially likes to draw comic book like drawings and monsters and even super heroes. He also loves to play video games (big surprise). He doesn't like to do homework. He even lies about not having any.
Some very exciting news is that he is going to play Chip in North Star's production of Beauty and the Beast. He's pretty excited about that! Megan was not excited about it...LOL! She feels like he is intruding upon her world. The rest of the kids are very happy he's there and treat him as one of them...which is very cool for him.
Joe continues to have struggles with behavior. He's just sweetest boy sometimes but there is the flip side to that and it can come out like a vengeance at any given moment. I was explaining his "explosions" to a friend of mine and she commented that he is "very justice oriented" and I thought that was a perfect explanation. That is almost always what sets him off...when he thinks he there is some injustice occurring and he can't "fix" it. He is working on it and really does continue to improve and in the mean time he's learned how to give very heart felt apologies.
He still loves to snuggle with me and for that I am more thankful than I can express. Having little ones around at the same time there are teenagers living in the home can be very therapeutic. It's so good for this mom's soul to still get some loving when half the kids are not into that anymore.
Joe has quite a wonderful sense of humor too. He likes telling jokes and hearing them too. He truly is my sweet boy and I love him so dearly. He is very tender hearted. He loves Hannah so much and even though he sometimes teases her and fights with her he loves to play with her and even snuggle with her (sometimes).
Tuesday, February 11, 2014
|Hannah on her baptism day|
I really started to think about how fast time is flying on by and how bad my memory is getting. I know I used to have a really good memory and could remember many details. I don't know if it's stress or age or maybe some of both but I just don't remember things like I used to. So, I need to write here on my blog more often. I know I will be glad to have a record of things later on.
Hannah has been really cute lately. She's just at a really fun age. She still loves to snuggle (I know this will be going away sooner than I think or want). She's really starting to discover the world around her and realize there's much more going on than just what happens in her own world. She really enjoys telling me about her day in great detail and I enjoy her telling me....for I know soon enough she will get irritated with me just for asking how her day was. She is so pretty and I just love her dearly. She is growing her hair long and it's so much fun to play with right now.
On Saturday she really wanted to go get stuff to make her valentines for school. So I told her she better help me put my shoes and socks on...I was really being lazy and she was more than willing to do that for me. She got out my shamrock socks and put them on and then put my shoes on for me.... I told her she better get used to that because when I'm an old woman she will have to do it all the time. :). I then asked her if she'd change my diaper when I'm old and she told me right away that would be Joe's job. LOL. She then "assigned" all of her siblings with jobs to help take care of me when I'm old:
Zacky will drive me around to "all the stores"
Matthew will make me breakfast, lunch and dinner and dessert (I'm glad I'll get dessert)
Joshy will take naps with me.
And my favorite one is that Megan will "cheer" me up. After she told me that she paused for a couple seconds and then said "she's not going to like that very much, but she will have to cheer you up even if she's the one who made you sad". LOL!
Then, on the way to JoAnns to get paper and supplies for valentines she asked me "Why are chicken nuggets called nuggets". I said "because they are shaped like a "nugget". She wanted to know what a nugget is and I realized it's really hard to explain what a nugget is...so I said like a nugget of gold..shaped kinda like a hunk of something it's shaped kinda like a circle or a square and she said "Or a dinosaur"....which I laughed about. She told me sometimes chicken nuggets are shaped like dinosaurs....which I suppose they are. We then talked about how nuggets and strips are different from each other. I love that she thinks about these things. I want her to feel free to talk to me about anything so if chicken is the subject of conversation, I'll take it!
Some of things she loves right now are singing, especially the song "do you want to build a snowman" from the movie Frozen. She also loves playing with her stuffed animals and playing with legos with Joe. She really loves Joe so much right now. She likes riding her scooter. She loves school and playing with her friends at school. They pretend to be dogs at recess alot. Some of her favorite foods right now are spaghetti and she loves tostadas. She doesn't like to clean her room...at all. she is quite the hoarder actually and it truly amazes me how fast she fill it back up with clutter after I declutter it.
So, there are some things about my sweet Hannah girl. Oh, she told me the other day that she loves her name because it rhymes with banana and she loves bananas. She's just a really happy girl most of the time...she can throw a mean tantrum though....